Pain during first penetration... Something wrong? Will it ever feel good?
(1) Dear Alice, I have never had sex, but I have tried now twice with my boyfriend, and it has been incredibly painful. It felt like there was a barrier inside me, and the second time I bled. I feel...
View ArticleIntercourse no longer feels good — what's going on?
Dear Alice,For the past month or so, I have not been able to enjoy sex with my boyfriend. Our sex life was great, but now I can't have an orgasm anymore. It doesn't even feel good anymore. I am able to...
View ArticleI've never ejaculated – do I have a serious problem?
Dear Alice.I am a twenty-year-old male. My problem is that I have never ejaculated. I have no problem getting and maintaining an erection, but it seems as though I cannot ejaculate. If I masturbate for...
View ArticleLack of sexual sensation with my current partner
Dear Alice, I could not find anything on this on the web. Maybe you can help me. I have a woman in my life who I am considering marrying. The only thing really holding me back is the sex with her. The...
View ArticleProblems with A-C-L lead to problems with S-E-X
Dear Alice, I'm a woman and recently tore up my MCL [medial collateral ligament] and ACL [anterior cruciate ligament]. So I can't bend my right knee. I'm having difficulties finding a comfortable...
View ArticleTestosterone cream for low sex drive?
Dear Alice,Is it true that women can apply testosterone cream to their vaginal area to increase sex drive?
View ArticleI'm not very hand-y (or, how to give a good hand job)
Dear Alice, Gosh, this sounds pretty bad Alice, but I am need of help. My boyfriend is um, good with his hands, and I want to reciprocate, I really do, but I've never really given a hand job before...
View ArticleSexual arousal disorders: What to do?
Dear Alice,What's subjective arousal disorder? How can it be treated?—Unaroused
View ArticleSore sex?
Dear Alice, I know you've had many similar questions, but I still don't quite have the answer. I am a female, and a relative newcomer to sex, and just about every time I have sex with my boyfriend...
View ArticleGetting an erection after ejaculating (the full story)
(1) Dear Alice, I have trouble getting an erection after ejaculating. I wait 10-20 minutes, but it doesn't get too hard. It sometimes annoys my girlfriend. Is there anything I can do besides waiting...
View ArticleSex regrets
Dear Alice, I've had sex and I really wish that I'd never done it. I didn't really enjoy it, either. It really hurt and I said I'd never do it again. Will I enjoy it next time?
View ArticleFeeling frustrated about physical disability and sex
Hi, I have been dating this guy for 10 years. We both have physical disabilities and therefore have very limited movement. However, we have complete sensation. We really want to have sex but are...
View ArticleTongkat Ali — safe aphrodisiac for men?
Is Tongkat Ali safe for men to take? If so, what are the recommended doses?
View ArticleRecent aversion to sex with long-term love — What to do?
Hi Alice, I've been with my boyfriend for just over 4 years. Our sex life has always been the strong thread in our relationship, even when we've had trouble in other areas. We both feel we are the...
View ArticleWhat is pre-orgasmic?
Dear Alice,I know this may seem like a strange question, but what exactly IS pre-orgasmic? Does it mean that a person hasn't yet had an orgasm, or that her body isn't ready yet? I remember reading in...
View ArticleSex and spinal cord injuries
Dear Alice,Boy do I have a question for you, Alice! A friend of mine has a spinal cord injury and is paralyzed from the waist down. I was wondering if he is capable of having an erection and...
View ArticleNew boyfriend, only missionary position
Hey Alice!My old boyfriend and I used to have sex in three or four different positions, including sitting, me on top, doggie style, etc. My new boyfriend and I are a lot closer, and I have much better...
View ArticleEjaculation without orgasm – is it possible?
Dear Alice, My boyfriend recently told me that he rarely has orgasms when he ejaculates. I was aware that men could have orgasms without ejaculation, but I didn't think it worked the other way around....
View ArticleDoes Ritalin have sexual side effects?
Dear Alice,Can Ritalin, or similar medications, affect a male's ability to orgasm or ejaculate?
View ArticleDisabled with major sexual frustration
Dear Alice,I'm 18 years old and was paralyzed from my neck down when I was ten. For the past three or four years I've been experiencing sexual frustration that has been progressing rapidly since I'm...
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